Saturday, August 22, 2009

Consider being less of a twat.... I will too.




Ok, I want all the gays out there to know something. YOURE NOT ORIGINAL when youre being MEAN TO PORN STARS, or random people you think are hot for that matter! Im not saying I know many or are even an advocate for them BUT I will say in running this blog I receive a semi endless array of CUNTING remarks about the people/ porn stars/ whoever from JEALOUS FAGS.
I think the people who make the comments dont realize that I hear them ALL THE TIME. The same comments over and over again about pretty much flawlessly hot dudes usually from ANONYMOUS sources of course. I think it just comes out of their mouth and they think its a unique reaction, but after running this blog and spending the brief time around porn models I have realized its REALLY COMMON.
I understand porn stars put themselves out there for worship so equally they are open to critique and there IS an element of "neediness", that is usually uncomfortably relatable on an unconscious level I think, but when that critique is so obviously based in jealousy/shame/ guilt etc it falls flat. I dont publish most of the negative comments for this reason, not to mention I also dont want the CUNTY JU-JU on the site. A great example of this behavior would be when I was at a club with a "porn star" this GO GO WHORE hits on me and is like "youre friend does porn, do you?" and Im like "No." and hes like "Oh, Thats good! I dont like that. " ... WHAAAA????? The STRIPPER is making a judgement on the PORN STAR?!?! Or once when I was casting models for Slick It Up this ESCORT said "Many of your models are porn stars and I am NOT a porn star" even though he HAD AN AD WITH FACE ON RENTBOY?! but the thing is this judgement is SO COMMON, people love to get jealous because the porn stars are usually unattainably hot, but then they feel angry that they a. think theyre hot and b. need to feel "better than" because they suddenly feel LESS THEN because they know the pornstar isnt gonna be into them and have to "balance it out" because their uncomfortable with having the porn star having more "power" then them and they feel guilty and and and and.. Its like this very obvious basic chain of events that I have encountered plenty of times and I think its gross. I have to say I HAVE DONE IT MYSELF, and Im aware of it and realize it was me being and INSECURE CUNT FAG, so Im not saying im above any of this but I am saying I'm aware of it now and its gross and its actually MEAN. Yes the porn stars see right through it because they experience it all the time but still, they shouldnt have to. Im not saying "save the porn stars" because they do put themselves up for it because we all know people suck so anytime you put yourself out there to the public youre gonna have to deal with jealous bitches who do nothing and have nothing to back their words up, but next time your gonna SPIT ACID, just check to see where its coming from and if its from your own insecurities KEEP IT TO YOURSELF because it only makes you look bad and I dont think its so great as far as karma is concerned. That said I HAVE TO DO THIS ALL THE TIME because im a VICIOUS CUNT and have to be careful Im not operating out of a negative thought process. I mean this kind of behavior is sorta no different then the "straight" guy who has gay issues/fantasies so he yells "faggot" at the first gay he sees...
Not to mention, go look in a god damn mirror, I realize people make the comments because they go through this semi unconscious thought process of :
1. "Hes hot and has a killer body"
2."Im not as hot and dont have as good of a body."
3. " I dont like feeling less than"
4. " Let alone by some dumb porn star"
5." Im gonna say something so I feel better about myself because I dont like the awkward realization that someone could be sexier and therefor have "power" over me. Let alone a "porn star".
6." He looks spent, and is a prostitute, and his legs are bad."
7. "There now I dont feel less than."
They ALWAYS say the legs are bad, thats like cliche cunting comment number one in the line up of jealous gay commentary... as if theirs are better....
So next time you fall into this situation, which we all do btw, consider stopping the TRYORY and realizing that youre most likely operating out of your insecurities and in the end its gonna make you feel worse not better about yourself because you'll know inside exactly why you said it and go home and have to cry in the mirror.
Ok Im done now :)
Time to go lift.

20 comments:

Anonymous said...

Great rant, loved it!

By the way you are the only entity on the entire internet using the word(?) TRYORY as some kind adjective(?) with some kind of meaning.... what does it mean, did you make it up?

Anonymous said...

The idea that fantasy is supposed to remain fantasy is why. If you're able to not only live out fantasy but SELL it and earn a living... well, that's just unforgivable. For reasons we can't articulate we all watch porn, admire and worship, but lack respect for the performers. We'd never call it an admirable profession. Maybe it's our way of saying "I've done a lot of trashy things... but I've NEVER done that..."
What I know is I won't likely ever be asked to be in a porno... which makes me sad. I'd love to at least be asked. : )

~N
PS... I won't look at porn stars the same way anymore... and I think that's good.

David Mason said...

I wish I had the genius to make up the word TRYORY but it was made up by a formerly homeless tranny who has an uncanny grasp on reality and im not sure if she knows it. It means the act of "trying it" aka trying to pass off bullshit and lies.

Anonymous said...

Very cool story behind this new word! If Google is any to judge if this new "street tranny word" has made its way into our speak....it hasnt, you are the first and you should copy write it or she should!

Kurt Walters said...

Whenever I meet pornos or those involved in the adult entertainment industry, I ask them if they've ever read "I can't believe I'm knitting!" 'cuz it sure doesn't hurt to have a solid talent for craft to fall back onto when the circus leaves town..

LUCIEN said...

We all want to stay away from CUNTY JU-JU
Now that is a phrase full of meaning ! :-)

Anonymous said...

I like this post because I used to do EXACTLY what you are describing. I stopped because a couple of years ago I realized that my judgement was only out of jealous insecurity. Sometimes I DO wish that porn stars would just GO AWAY, not because I don't like porn, but because I can't stop comparing myself to them thinking "THAT is how I have to look if I ever want to have sex or a bf again." Now that I am no longer in my twenties, I am feeling older every day and every time I look in the mirror and feel proud of myself for how hard I've been working on my body, I see a pic of some guy on a blog that looks 1000x better and I go right back to ZERO.

GO AWAY HOT PORN PEOPLE!!

Aurora Heffermore said...

Insightful post. Even though it's outraged, you bring it around to empathy. Why, you're the roidtard Oprah!

David Mason said...

You have to realize there is no reason to ever compare number one ANd there is always the magic of retouching ANd they probably only looked that good for a hot second for the photoshoot. I mean that is if you have to go there and reason.

JiffyJim said...

Wow, quite a post. I like celebrating sexy males on my blog. And, without being corny, I know I don't look like a porn star BUT I do believe I & everyone can and should get in touch with their inner sexiness & you can feel like one. I believe in a good attitude and working what you have.

Erik said...

So true. What most strikes me about the hate troll comments is how lame and unoriginal they always are... You´d think that someone who spends their time spewing hate would come up with something original every now and then.

Sue said...

Porn stars are real people with families, friends, spouses and lovers that have the same emotions as the rest of us. If you prick them they bleed. They are human beings, just like us. They deserve to have normal lives too, no matter what job they pay the rent with. Everyone should try to remember that before they make any remarks about them.

Altair Drexel said...

and THIS is why I always look forward to reading your posts!

Anonymous said...

Why don't you just not allow comments at all if you don't want any divergence of opinion, and just make it a fanboy site of pornstars who've worn your shit?

David Mason said...

Because as I wrote there is a big difference between divergence of opinion and being a jealous faggot.

Steve Cruz XXX said...

I secretly hate porn stars... and I'm plotting my evil revenge shhhh!

faginlove said...

I think that porn stars r going to be the cultural icons of tmrw.... just u watch....(remember when being an actress was a unrespectable profession? no I'm not that old!!!)

fang said...

'cunty ju ju'?!?

you killed me with that one!

total classic and now forever interred in my lexicon for future use :D

Anonymous said...

BRILLIANT! I have done it, and been on th receiving end of bitchy comments and couldn't agree more. When I said shit like this it was out of MY insecurity, MY bullshit. I don't often do it anymore, but when I catch myself I always say out loud "yeah...and I am so shit hot..."

Thanks for the rant..and keep up the GREAT site!

gavin said...

I believe the official word in Trannese is "HATER."