Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Why is that WHITE BROAD such a CUNT?!


When I say WHITE BROADS I of course me white GAYS but you might not assume that but the concepts of gender or just identity in general are VERY LOOSE at the House of Vader.
What is up with these WHITE BITCHES who throw COPIOUS versions of UNMITIGATED SHADE at you when youre being perfectly friendly if youre not black?! I know that my friends and I cannot be the only ones who have experienced this?! What Im talking about are these gay guys who quite often are usually really fit, almost hyper meticulously fit, and if you talk to, smile to, or even just look at SPIT VENOM at you if youre also white. Has anyone else experienced this? Im actually most interested in hearing from readers who are of African decent and know what Im talking about and what their opinion is on it. Im willing to bet its a two sided deal with them. Like on one side its nice to have a hot guy lust for you but its also TOTALLY ANNOYING / INSULTING to be a fetish object - ( I speak from experience on both sides) because there is often something insulting about it once you look deeper into it because FETISH LUST is often because on some level the person sees the fetish object as "wrong" or "bad", so if you want anything deeper then fetishistic sex (which is AWESOME when you want it) it can maybe get a little ugly...
Here in New York its SEMI COMMON and whats WILD is I can see it coming from a mile away now because I know the signs. They will be at the bar or gym or club alone and NOT SOCIALIZING, which is fine as I am not so social, BUT with them there is a VERY BRISTLY element to it, they will have fierce body but CUNTING FACIAL POSTURE, hands in their pockets, and standing by themselves. That description sounds kinda VAGUE and like MOST GAYS but there is something different about them I think its the "FUCK OFF WHITE BITCH" vibe they send out that makes it all come together its very "poorly socialized dog" energy. For example last year I was in Berlin with my friend and there was this dude, fit this description to a T, he was standing there alone CUNTING THE WORLD at the Folsom Europe thing. He would seriously throw you a nasty glance if you tried smiling at him like beyond anti social this was full on AGGRESSIVE CUNTING, and my friend and I just looked at each other and said "You know shes only into black guys with that attitude" and low and behold 45 minutes later the dude is there with THE ONLY 4 African guys in Berlin!
Ive experienced this in every city Ive lived and it sorta baffles me. The part I dont get is the RAGE why are they so nasty if youre not black? THEY arent even black so its not like they can say its because they get treated differently AND BY ALL MEANS all white guys who are into black guys are NOT like this, its a VERY PARTICULAR breed, my friend Walts taste in men goes from AUBERGINE to ONYX and he is as sweet and friendly as they come, but he is also very open in his tastes he not only likes dark guys but light guys, and masculine guys, and femme guys,etc etc etc. The cunts are the ones STRICTLY INTO BLACK DICK, totally fetishistic about it, and I THINK thats twist that can sometimes make for the cunting behavior, though I cant say why exactly because everyone could have there own multiple number of reasons for being a TWAT, and lord knows I DO..
All Im saying is if you are one of these queens and Im friendly to you, which is hard for me to do and actually something Im personally working on so its especially resonate to me if youre a dick when I try to be friendly because im TRYING TO MAKE THE EFFORT to be more open and LESS OF A JUDGEY DOUCHE myself, so just PLEASE STOP BEING SUCH A CUNT. I dunno what sparks the contempt but im not gonna come for your man, or judge you, or try and pick you up, because IM A BOTTOM JUST LIKE YOU. So next time someone is FRIENDLY to you just for the sake of being nice TRY SMILING or someone is gonna write a stupid piece about you on their blog and talk about what a nasty cunt you act like in your search for your fetish object.

18 comments:

witomski said...

Dave...some fags are just into venomous attitude....fuck 'em! No one needs such cunts around when we have down-to-earth cuties like you!....Joe

Anonymous said...

Just a note, not all black guys are African...I had a friend who was Jamaican and he got irritated when people called him African American. :)

David Mason said...

Thats why I say african decent. I actually DELETED the part of the article that said " I say african decent because not everyone is AMERICAN" but I took it out because I figured it was a given but now I see that I should have left it in there.

Maddy McMan said...

I am a black american male. I have been a fetish object numerous occassions. Usually the attention comes from older white men. For me, I think that fetish part comes in because black is wild, unknown and untamed(in their minds).

Its all about hard, violet sex with 10 inch dicks. By that I mean, we are preceded by myths and one-sided generalizations. Black people and culture are taken at face value still after all these centuries.(To anonymous:once your Jamaican friend steps on American soil, he takes the weight of being black in America, end of story.tell him to Man up.)

As for the queens that give you the death stare, I think they are just guarding the black dicks they "discovered" and tell you to "back f#@k up, b!t@#!, they are mine."lol
But then again, I may be reading too much into things.

nsfw said...

If you go to a German gay bar with a black American friend you'll be instantly swarmed, your friend will have umpteen drinks bought for him, you'll be hung out to dry, and you'll lose your friend in one half hour.
Without fail.

Anonymous said...

Do you think most gay white men prefer to get it on with other gay white men?

swine said...

I've encountered this too but since NYC is the capitol of aggressive cuntiness, I notice it, but I'm numb to it. I almost think it's sorta boring.

Sorry Dave but I kinda hope u get continually rejected, dicked over or treated like shit so u come up w/these awesome rants.

Theo said...

From a black man's point of view, guys like that are annoying. You are right, they are typically going after you because of the big dick stereotype or because they have other issues from the most harmless (grew up in a black enviorment and think by looking "hard" is the only way they will attract the guys they grew up around and like) to the most distrub (believe in black supermency and are SERIOUSLY into that frame of fetishism).

Postures and attuides like the guy you describe in your piece would prevent me from going up and talking to him. It is so strange.

I will also say that it happens on the other side too. There are white guys who you smile and want to be friendly with and they turn up their nose in disgust that a black man is even looking at them. They make it very clear that they are "not into black guys" and that I should fuck off. What's the deal? I'm just trying to be friendly. If I am into you in a romantic way and your not, then that's fine, but you don't have to be a bitch about it.

I remember growing up and thinking that being Gay would be so welcoming and I would have friends of all kind of races and backgrounds. At 36 I can say that its just as fragmented as the real world and the gay lifestyle is just fragmented and fetishized. Either your into amberzombies, gym buddies, latin guys or black guys. There doesn't seem to be anything in between.

Just be open to other styles and types of men, guys. If you have fetishes, that is fine, but don't limit your network because your so caught up in it and look at guys in your network beyond the fetishes you carry with you sometime. You may be surprised.

Great post, David!

neon said...

First of all .... Bravo for posting this. As a black gay guy I rant on often that the issue of race and racism is prevalent even in the gay world but it often falls onto def ears (aside from my other gay black friends). As far as sex and fetish - Amen!! I was in a relationship for a year and a half with a white dude who's idea of a hot time was wearing a du-rag during sex and hearing me call him the N word (note that only surfaced towards the end of our relationship). Sad enough this kind of this happens to me a lot. I hang out in the east village to get away from the shade of the west village pears and sterotypes of Chelsea but the truth is- racism is everywhere.
In reference to the shady cunts, it's sad and fucked up. I've definetlly run in to this kind of Cunt a couple times who is giving the evil eye to everyone in the bar but as soon as I walk in with a fitted they hop on top of me within seconds. I laugh it off and usually walk the other direction but between him and the cunts of the east village who have told be " oh I'm not into dark meat" -- I say screw them all and let's all try not to be cunts copies of our heteosexual brothers and sisters. We're gay - what ever happen to all the colors of the gay rainbow unite. Damn it!

David Mason said...

" Wearing a du-rag and (lets just say i) having you call him a nigger" just CRACKED ME UP, only because its SO REAL!!! I dont judge it, fetish comes from a world that is the OPPOSITE of p.c and therefore "real world" rules do not apply and it can be AWESOME but it can also be mildly offensive or A LOT OFFENSIVE in a real world sense because when you back away from it and enter reality you may encounter a feeling of " this guy actually thinks im DIRT doesnt he?" I mean its a mixed bag, on one hand they ACTUALLY DO worship you but theyre also conflicted as fetish often comes from early formative experiences usually BEFORE people learn to be pc so therefore there is this quandary of being pc and simultaneously wanting to be on your knees in front of someone you think is "lower" then you and although you may in REALITY know theyre not lower then you the fetish is still engrained in you and you cant UNDO IT so there you have what is known as FETISH SEX FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE ;). So I fully understand what it feels like, it halfway SUCKS and is INSULTING and its halfway FIERCE. I just try and see it that EVERYTHING in the world is halfway FIERCE and halfway SUCKY so just enjoy it till its not fun anymore.
ps. as a POLLOCK I LOVE being called a POLLOCKO by my rican fuck buddy because its WRONG and being a POLOCK is "degrading" and to have a rican from NEW JERSY which is also "degrading" say it to you kinda RULES, but I know its all retarded and just fun. I just hope my rican doesnt mind calling me that :) he seems to enjoy it, theres lots of " Take my rican dick in your big whiteboy ass" dialogue going on when we get it on, which i really appreciate so I think hes cool with it. :)

Anonymous said...

I think being PC goes out the window when getting down and dirty, or at least makes it more fun!

Laissez Faire said...

I'm a 20 something African American guy. I've experienced being fetish before. It sucks when it comes to romance part of the relationship but when it comes to sex, its only cute for the first five minutes after that its like get over my brown skin, big booty and nappy hair. But, I don't know if this has happened to any of you but I've met white guys who thought I was not black enough. That's the real slap in the face.

serge said...

you know David,I thought the time limit for Fuck Buddy was 3 months.He might just be your Boyfriend by now.And that's not a bad thing.

Anonymous said...

Oh girl please. You get it because you're white as he is. The same shit could be said as to why black fags give each other the side eye when they are with whiteboys and won't even speak to you because they are either scared you want his ass or don't like negroes like himself.

Sheiiit, now thats a post right there, lawhavmercy!

So its not a white gay thing at all, just threatened cunts in defensive mode.

brando said...

Ahh yes queen, I once had this guy show up at my door after we'd been (forgive me for typing this) "sexting" for a while with Timberland boots IN MY SIZE and ready for me to fuck him with them on.

I've been in the city for 5 years now and at first it was flattering but now it's annoying because without fail, people who are (patent pending) Mandigo Chasers always want you to be blacker than you are. They have SWV as their ringtone, they know quotes from The Colored Purple better than you and they swear by Oprah.

I agree with Maddy McMan with why they're cunty though, sometimes the simplest answer is the right one. Because you have to think, they're just as much as a fetish to the guy they're with and you entering the scene diminishes that so of course they're going to be cunty.

Robert said...

Laissez Faire, Im right there with you. I have had on more than one occasion been informed I'm not black enough. Which prompts me to ask where is the "Being BLACK for Dummies" and why Mom and Dad chose to hide it from me. I actually had a guy stop seeing me when he asked was I only into white guys and I said No, I like all sorts of guys. He came unhinged. David I'm really glad you posted this cause I was certain I wasn't the only one noticing this behavior.

David Mason said...

Well it goes for anyone with a fetish, theyre hard to satisfy in the long run in my experience. , youre not sadistic, asian, str8, short,black, tall, hairy enough...

Anonymous said...

Its the opposite here in the Midwest (or maybe just Detroit)....I'm a black generally attracted to white, latino or arabic guys and I constantly get rejected and told "I'm allergic to chocolate. It makes me break out." I get that you aren't into me...it sucks but I move on. On the other hand the guys that are into black guys want you to be the biggest thug mandigo out there. Fucking them you constantly hear,"put that big black dick in my white ass". It sucks that all you can be scene as a fetish object and a candidate for a real relationship.